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After breaking up with my longterm boyfriend I thought my life had come to an end. I was very lonely having moved states, not having family I could talk to and not having made any friends near. Further, the friends who knew us did not like him and insisted I could have done better. I of course did not see it that way as I was smitten and had grown dependent on his financial assistance.
When he left me I felt used and betrayed. I had tolerated being emotionally abused, taken for granted and being lied to long enough yet I did not get a chance to leave him, he beat me to that game too. So I was left with a wounded spirit and pride.
Coupled with self loathing I was now broke and forced to start afresh with no support whatsoever. Finding Susan Russo's website and the subsequent coaching was a life saver!
I do not know how I could have possibly handled that breakup. The strength I derived from her teaching helped me say no to him when he came back apologetic and wanting to save my dire financial situation. Its almost one and a half years later and i still read with great appreciation Susan's emails and blog forwards.
I'm a much stronger person emotionally, I'm doing better financially having began my own small business and having gone back to college. I'm in a relationship where wholesome edification is realised and most of all -i'm hopeful. I'm sure i could not have done it without God and Susan's help.
God Bless.
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Liz
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Two years ago, while recovering from major surgery, I found out that my partner and father to our eight year old daughter, was having an affair with another woman. We had a rather good ten year relationship, or so I thought and this came all so very unexpected and I took it very badly. I felt that my world was tearing apart. I couldn't and didn't want to accept what was happening to both me and my daughter, who was so heartbroken after her dad walked out on us. I was struggling and could not find peace within myself.
I spoke with many of my friends about how I felt but it seemed that my anger just grew and grew.
After having read 'There Is Life After What's - His - Name', I began to FACE THE FACTS and,it also taught me how to ACCEPT THE SITUATION, something I could not do on my own.
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most grateful toSUSAN RUSSO and, for all she shared in her book about her own personal life which,has helped me a great deal. I can now say that I live my life with an attitude for gratitude! God bless you Susan and thank you. I would recommend your book anytime. |
Carmen,
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Susan................
Thank you so much for your book of hope! I have purchased every self help book in Amazon and read every Blog in English on how to handle relationships. My sanity depended on it However, what made your book so special was that it was hopeful and in the last chapter (34) you gave the best advice about relying on God.
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Susan Kersch
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I was feeling so down about the breakup of my relationship with Tom. I summarized what our relationship had been, in a letter to Susan. She had taken each line and analysed it. From my words, she explained my relationship better than I could. She definitely had helped me see everything in clear sight. 4 months of heartache and than I found her, I wish it could have been sooner. After being coached for a day, my world became bright.I no longer wanted to linger onto my past relationship. I would strongly recommend that for anybody who needs that push......... either to leave a partner, analyse your relationship problems,
or to get over the hurt........this woman will help you. I thought that I was unfixable. Thanks again Susan!!!
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Angela Snow
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dear susan
i m rishwa from india.. u know in the beginning when i registered for your program i actually just did it cause i was so much in pain.. i was so lonely and sad n depressed and i was like i just want anyone to help me get over my ex in any possible way.. then later on u started mailin me every day giving me tips on "how to get over your ex in 7 days" it was like god has sent me an angel to help me.. i truly n honestly thank you, you have helped me a lot.. today i can see myself happier than before.. soemtimes i feel tht i wish that i could meet you but it is not possible.. but i do have a hope that one day we will meet..i just hav only one word for you "THANKS!"... thank you for bringing me to life again.. thank you for everything..
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Rishwa, India
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Men, absolutely do not let the title of this book mislead you. This is not written for women only nor is it remotely close to a “male bashing” book. Susan Russo has aimed this phenomenal work of wisdom at the loyal, dedicated person, male OR female, who has given everything they have to give to their relationship, tried every possible avenue to create a healthy life with their partner and still find themselves frustrated with an uncommitted, self-serving mate unwilling to give that devotion in return.
If you’ve exhausted all possible efforts to create a fulfilling relationship but find that your dedication is a one-way street, it is absolutely imperative that you read this rare book rich with straight-to-the-point advice and liberation from your suffering.If you’ve strived endlessly only to realize that no matterwhat you do, how committed you are, or how hard you work, that your partner still gives little regard to you or your relationship, do yourself a tremendous favor and follow Susan’s very clear steps to navigating your way out.
I spent most of my 16-year relationship hoping, working, and praying for my wife to accept the responsibilities, daily joy, and fulfillment that marriage and parenthood are meant to bring. I tried everything humanly possible to save our dead marriage: seven years of counseling, thousands of dollars supporting her bad habits, working to exhaustion for years to keep the family afloat, living with her wreckless decisions of infidelity, several nights leaving me home alone with our four children while she parties till bar time or just doesn’t come home at all, out-of-state trips that lasted for weeks, prioritizing relatives & friends before her husband and children, secret cell phone and internet life, little or no marital communication, and a blatant disregard for my constant effort and devotion. I was loyal to a fault and did all of this in the name of saving my “nuclear family” that she wasn’t willing to also fight for. Susan Russo, with direct honesty and compassion, spells out very clearly the difference between real and false hope. She walks with you hand-in-hand from the despair and frustration you are currently feeling, to making the difficult decision to end the suffering, to going through the healing process and beyond
If you are in a one-way marriage or relationship, you will find yourself, just as I did, nodding your head through the entire book and will feel as if she is speaking directly to you. You will literally feel the weight of months, or in my case years, of pain, rejection, and frustration lifted with each page that you read. What you won’t find is theoretical garbage from a counseling workshop or hypocritical advice from someone who hasn’t lived the sheer anguish you are suffering. Nor will you find any “candy-coating” of the reality of the person you are with and the blatant disrespect they are showing you and your relationship. Susan will tell you exactly how it is and, in no uncertain terms, your options from this point forward with direct honesty, clarity, and empathy. Susan has taken the agony and frustrations of her own journey with self-serving, uncommitted, unappreciative companions and the subsequent havoc it wreaked with her life and emotions and has combined it with the wisdom of her painstaking search for hope, happiness, and fulfillment in life after what’s his (OR HER) name.” Gentlemen, I tell you as a high school teacher, football coach, and father of four, don’t miss this one…
What makes Susan Russo special is that she is genuine. Her care is real and it comes through loud and clear in her writing. She’s compassionate, wise, and will help bring absolute clarity and relief to your painful struggle. She empowers the victim, period…no excuses for the partner’s consistent disregard for you. You do not have to continue suffering nor do you have to feel guilty for making a decision to not live that life any more. This book will be a steady beacon on your journey out of that darkness and to the healthy life God intends for you to live.
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Your friend for life…JC Wisconsin
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Dear Susan,
I wanna thank you very much for your support during all this sad period I am going through, mainly in relation to the end of my love relationship.
Your support aided me so gratefully that I am feeling much better now . I am not crying so much as I did and I am feeling more strong and secure to go on with my life without the man I was in love. Your kind words and sincere support are still of great value and are being very important so that I can reorganize my emotions and my life in general.
Again I am very grateful for your support in healing my broken
heart.
Many thanks and may GOD BLESS YOUR SOUL AND YOU!
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Suzana F. Padilla (Rio de Janeiro, Brazil)
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Dear Susan,
Your book was truly invaluable to me. I was in a relationship that was not good for me. It was emotionally quite damaging and I spent so much time crying and then trying to do better and change myself! I downloaded your book, read it and agreed I should end my relationship; only to go back twice to my partner and had to repeat the process. But the really important thing was that your book helped me to be increasingly persuaded that things had to end. It took me almost a year but finally I decided on what I wanted from the relationship and I gently told my partner, but said that of course if he didn't want the same things… That was it. I ended the relationship....for good. I read, and reread your book. It supported me and took me through the break up step by step until finally I can say I am truly free! I would sincerely recommend it to anyone. Deep inside you know the truth about a relationship but sometimes it takes a long time to acknowledge and face up to it. I am now in a very loving relationship; totally different from my previous one. Thank you so much.
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Alison, Ireland
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Dear Susan,
I was in a very difficult situation, something I hadn't planned would happen to me. I was so in control of my life, and relationships, so I thought. Unexpectedly, I fell for another man, I was already married and facing some hard and serious decisions! I never persued an affair with this man, thank goodness!
I saw Susan's name on the Internet by chance. I decided to write to her for advice and explained what I was going through, I am a very private person, so opening up was hard, I felt embarrassed. She coached me all the way through.She knew my emotional ups and downs, how you think, and what daily choices I had to make.Positiveness played a big part in the transformation of my outlook on myself, I had to love myself first!!! I started to think less of him, and my heart began to heal. I am happily married.
Thank you Susan for your coaching and guidance. I recommend others who may be having their own personal battle, to seek your help. Kindest regards
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Michelle, Auckland, New Zealand
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Dear Susan,
Thank you very much for writing. Its unbelievable how your book worked on me from the minute I started reading it! I have recommended it to somany of my friends who find themselves in the situation I was myself. The best handbook anyone can have!!
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God Bless…Carmen |
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Dear Susan,
I just wanted to write you and thank you from the bottom of my heart. If I hadn’t been lucky enough to find your book on the Internet, I really don’t think I would’ve made it through. Your book helped me to open my eyes on so many levels. I feel like I was blind and now I can see and what I see looks a whole lot better than what I left behind.
Thank you for all of your strength and kind words. |
Lillian Smalley…UK
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Dearest Susan,
You have blessed my life with your words. I can’t thank you enough. I have my life back. Even though it was so hard, you made it easier. May God Bless your work and many more good wishes. |
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Susan,
I wanted to take the time to say, THANK YOU! My girlfriend left me as you know and I never thought I would survive. Your coaching brought me to the place I am today and I don’t know what I would’ve done without you. Thanks again for all of your help….
Thank you for all of your strength and kind words. |
Steve G. AZ
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Susan,
I was in a somewhat abusive relationship that I was afraid to leave. Thanks to your book, you gave me the courage and strength to move away from this terrible time in my life. I really don’t think I could’ve done it without reading your book. I believe it was a gift from God. I thank God I found you on the internet. You changed my life |
Marissa Smithton, Sydney AU
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Dear Susan,
I thought I would never get over my husband of 15 years. I tried so hard and I couldn’t get out of my depression. After I read, “There Is Life After What’s-His-Name” I finally had the hope and strength to leave the past behind. And, I even could forgive him, thanks to your wise, wise words.
You have a gift for writing and any time I can, I tell people about you. God bless your work and thank you for every word in your book. |
Julianna Rosario, Barcelona, Spain
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